Baby Care Advice

Hey, this is Alan. I know I said a long time ago that you would be hearing a lot more from me on this blog.....well, I guess I lied. Sorrry. Getting things ready for graduate school took a lot of time. Thankfully I have a great wife who manages to keep up with this thing, even though she gets as busy as I do with her job. Youre awsome babe. I love you.

So now that we are having a baby, we have been trying to prepare ourselves to be parents - reading books, talking to the doctor, getting advice from friends, etc. Anything that will help us be more prepared for when our little Rufus arrives. Well a couple of months ago, my friend Ashleigh showed me an instruction manual on basic care for a baby that she thought would be very helpful for me. And I thought that it was very instructional. But being a new dad and all, I'm still not quite sure if the advice it gives is actually correct or something that I should follow. So I have decided to post parts of this manual and get the opinions from the people I trust the most: our friends and family. So go ahead and take a look. Here are some pages of it:

So, what do you think-- good advice, bad advice? Let us know. (Thanks to Ashleigh for sharing the information, and thanks to my friends Olivia and Richard who shared in the laughs and forwarded it to me so I could have it.)

First comes love, then comes marriage...

Then comes...you guessed it...a BABY!

We are so excited!! You know, living on my own I often wondered if it was in the "Plan" for me to get married and have children, it was something that I always wanted but just seemed to always be out of my reach. And then I met Alan and my whole life changed and I thought well, maybe I might get to be a mom in this life after all! And then I found out about my back and I was so scared that it would prevent me from being able to carry a child, I think that is why the Lord had us wait so long, he knew my body needed to heal and get strong! I have always hoped and dreamed-but never too loud, you know just in case. I didn't know if I was strong enougth to be disappointed in this area but I am so glad the Lord is blessing us with this miracle!


We do not know if it is a boy or girl yet, I just finished my first Trimester and thankfully did not have to suffer through morning sickness! I never have been a fan of vomit! :)


Once we get some pictures of little "Rufus" (Roo/fus) we will post them for sure!


He/She is due September 20th or somewhere thereabouts...everytime I go to the doctor they change the date!

New Addition....

So we did something that neither of us have EVER done on Monday...we bought a car, and when I say bought I mean paid in full, title in our name already bought a car! It was the wierdest feeling to come home with it and know that it's ours, we don't owe anybody anything else. And the best thing is that it has heat and AC, we will be set for school now!


I almost didn't get to put pictures on though because Alan likes to hide things from me and I can't find the cord to my new camera, but after charging our older camera up and switching out the memory card we have digital proof!

So what do you think, is it a boy or a girl?

We haven't decided yet!

We Are Moving!

Ok, so I know we are major slackers, but with all of Alan's interviews this past month we have been busy. But it was all worth it since he was accepted to all three schools that he applied to! (As if anyone ever doubted that!) And after much thought and prayer he has made a decision...one that has made some people very happy and some people not so much, but we are excited for the new adventure.

So wanna know where?

Check it out!

http://www.barnesjewishcollege.edu/

School will start in August so we will be leaving the end of July. We will be renting out our house so if you know of anyone that is interested....and of course cleanly :) please let us know!!